By Okeh Onyekachi
In a world where success is often met with skepticism, it is alarming how easily people wish misfortune upon others, especially those who have worked their way to prominence. Obinna Iyiegbu, popularly known as Obi Cubana, is a prime example of this phenomenon. Some of you are disappointed that he has not been arrested, eagerly waiting for a downfall that may never come. You may have to live with that disappointment for a long time—perhaps even for the rest of your lives.
It is astonishing how quickly people latch onto rumors and baseless allegations, weaving elaborate tales without a shred of credible evidence. Some have confidently claimed that Obi Cubana is involved in illegal activities, suggesting that Abba Kyari was merely a front for him. But let’s take a moment to reflect: What is the real motivation behind such claims? Are they based on facts, or are they a projection of our own cynicism and bitterness?
Success in Nigeria, and indeed in many parts of the world, often comes with undue scrutiny. Many find it difficult to believe that wealth can be acquired through legitimate means. Instead of celebrating a person’s achievements, some would rather dig deep, searching for dirt—even when none exists. But here is the harsh truth: if your desire to prove a false narrative leads you to actively wish for someone’s downfall, you need to take a closer look at yourself. You may be allowing negativity to consume you, transforming you into a person who finds satisfaction in the misfortunes of others.
Why is there such an eager anticipation for scandal? What exactly has this man done to warrant such bitterness from so many? Is it simply because he has defied the odds and become incredibly successful? If you live to a ripe old age and he is never convicted of any crime, will you have the courage to admit that you were wrong? More importantly, would you be bold enough to ask for forgiveness for the lies and negative energy you have projected?
We must ask ourselves: Do we truly believe that success is only possible through illegitimate means? Have we become so accustomed to corruption and criminality that we assume anyone who rises to wealth and prominence must have done so dishonestly? If so, we must reevaluate our perspectives. The truth is that while some may cut corners to achieve success, many others build their empires through hard work, discipline, and smart decision-making.
If your hope for Obi Cubana’s arrest is rooted in a genuine desire for justice, that is understandable. However, if it is merely to validate your own prejudices, assumptions, or misguided predictions, then perhaps it is time to reflect. What do you truly gain from wishing evil upon another man? Does it bring you wealth? Does it improve your life? Or does it simply serve as an excuse for your own lack of progress?
I do not claim to know Obi Cubana personally, nor can I vouch for every aspect of his business dealings. But one thing is certain—until proven otherwise, he remains a man who has built a name for himself through hard work, determination, and strategic thinking. If, God forbid, he is ever found guilty of wrongdoing, then he will face the consequences. However, until that day—if it ever comes—why not direct your energy towards your own personal and professional growth instead of fixating on someone else’s potential downfall?
The world is vast, and opportunities abound. The sky is wide enough for all birds to fly. Instead of waiting for someone else’s wings to break, why not strengthen your own and take flight?
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