Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 4 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slaves, servants, or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, babymaking, house chores, and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treat their wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES:
Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, and they even make their wives into slaves for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their Marriage to destroy yours, it’s a high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Childbearing and rearing. Whenever babies cry, It’s very common to hear men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?, most of the time only women attend Children parties in School, only mothers attend PTA meetings, and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believe their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger, and better than their wives. So they develop a Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture, and tutor their wives. To them, their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you.
Ibrahim Hammed Ishola
