In observance of International Men’s Day, Heritage Energy Operational Services Limited hosted a reflective session that brought together young boys on the cusp of adulthood, alongside men and women with decades of lived experience. The event focused on the journey of becoming a man—not as a single milestone, but as a lifelong process of self-awareness, growth, and responsibility.
Cultural diplomat and national identity strategist, Oladele Ogunlana, led the session, emphasizing that life often communicates in quiet whispers before demanding attention. He encouraged participants to engage with profound questions such as, “What is life inviting me to notice right now?” highlighting that the transition from boyhood to manhood begins with self-reflection and conscious decision-making.
The discussion addressed inherited beliefs, inner peace, personal responsibility, and the cultivation of habits that foster long-term well-being. Ogunlana reminded attendees that manhood is rooted in responsibility, discipline, and service, rather than external displays of strength. He stressed the importance of caring for oneself, practicing gratitude, and lifting others even while pursuing personal growth.
The session also highlighted the critical role of women in this journey, as mentors, observers, and supporters, reinforcing the idea that personal growth occurs within a community.
Ogunlana concluded with a powerful reminder: “Manhood is not about proving strength; it is about choosing growth… every day. In small ways. In honest ways. In courageous ways.” The event served as a mirror, a moment of quiet awakening, and a symbolic passing of wisdom between generations.
