The marriage of Rita Dominic at 46 has undoubtedly resonated hope in you in their search for life partner.
But wait?
As a lady of 40 and above, what are you bringing to the table of relationship, nay marriage?
If you’re into academics; at 40s, you’re supposed to have a minimum academic qualification of Master’s and/or other professional certification.
If you’re a business woman; at 40s, you are supposed to own not more than three flourishing shops.
If you’re working; at 40s, you are supposed to have been promoted up to senior manager or its equivalent.
Rita is a successful actress and business woman, whose name can’t be swept under the carpet in the entertainment industry.
If at 40s, you’re still slaying and looking for urgent 2k, with no car of your own, can’t possibly renew rent without hassles with landlord, with no sustainable means of livelihood; my sister your dream of marrying a responsible man is a mirage.
Men are more inclined to ladies of younger ages in relationship/marriage, and will likely go for older ladies if they have biological challenges or the lady is bringing humongous assets to the table.
You can’t be in 40s and still be a liability. Real men avoid such ladies. Beauty is not a value at 40s, rather your capacity.
© Peter Anosike.
